We tend to be much harsher in our thoughts than we would ever be with a friend. When we mess up or make a mistake or fall into temptation….most of us tend to then terrorize ourselves in our mind.
What kinds of things are you saying to yourself? Does it fall into this category: I should have done this…..I should have known better…..I’m the only one who is this bad…..what is wrong with me…..
These are mental habits we get into because of some situation or feedback we receive from other people at some point in our lives. Whether these super critical or shaming messages are given to us intentionally or unintentionally, we internalize these terroist messages as TRUTH.
The problem is that anyone subjected to shaming, critical, or condemning messages over time starts to feel bad. Often this is what is behind painful, intense emotions like anxiety and depression. It’s not always what happened to us in the past that is making us sad or anxious but the messages that we tell ourselves about what happened. We believe our inner terroist.
And since we think these terrible things about our selves, we would never share that message with anyone else. I bet if you shared just one of those terrorist thoughts with a friend, they would tell you how hard you are being on yourself. Friends are compassionate, understanding, encouraging, and supportive. Friends let us be real.
What if for just one day, you pledged to speak to yourself no different than you would to a friend. What if you decided to nurture yourself? What if you decided to stand up for the you that the inner terrorist is beating up?
Now, I know habits are hard to break and this one requires some inner dialogue but what if it made a difference? What if you eventually silenced the terroist and started believing the truth!
You are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God!
He knows every hair on your head!
He loves you with an everlasting love!
When you were still broken and sinful, He sent Christ to die for you. For all your brokenness. He took the shame that your inner terrorist is placing on you day after day!
IT IS FINISHED!
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